"I confused gender identity with sexual orientation. Your gender identity is about who you are, how you feel, the that you feel yourself to be. Sexual orientation is who you're attracted to."- Chaz Bono
A lot of things changed since I have been awakened by the sexuality of a lot of people. Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, Transgenders and Queers so to speak. Before there was only Male and Female and times have changed to make it more complicated. It was already complicated when Male and Female are the only genders on Earth. Then, there comes five more.
I don't have any off or resistance with the changes of time. I respect all human beings on earth whatever your sexual preferences may be. I respect you all.
But, what I don't understand is the ones who abuse those kinds of rights. Rights that they are sexually oriented with this and that. Its like they own the world with their sexuality.
I don't mean all of them. I will give you some examples...
- A female wife asking for an abandoned husband with support for their kids in a society that treats men as abusive and women are always the victims.
- A boss lesbian using her power to harass a female in an office that should promoting equality among sexual preference
- A customer who doesn't listen and curses the sexual preference of a struggling homosexual just following the corporate policy
These are just some of the things I experienced and looked on some people I experience everyday. There are many others that you can share with me through email
So for us to be humans, Below are the things I suggest you do to be respected as LGBTQ:
- Don't Ask Help For Anyone. There are people that are abusive and will ask something in return if you ask for their help. If you can do it on your own, then why ask for help.
- Don't Make Your Sexual Preference Be Your Weakness. If you make it your strength, then probably its your weakness too. Maybe you need it a perspective that we all human beings first before you look on your gender. and from there, you will learn to be compassionate.
- Don't Insult Others' Sexual Preference. Even though your gay-dar says that someone is gay, don't be intrusive to let anyone know. They have their reasons why they hide it from the public eye. Understand them. Maybe later on, they'll come out of their own closet.
Respect for individuals and be human. These are the key to a world of no labels. Just human beings. No LGBTQ. No Male and Female. Just Humans.
Kapish!