"Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck where you don't belong."- Mandy Hale
Change is inevitable. The one thing that is permanent in this world is change. I always agree to that with my experiences and the things around me.
But other people are still stagnant in the time that they believe they are. I mean they are stuck with the beliefs and mindset with what they know and learned. And they are adamant about it emotionally and mentally. Check the list below:
- Dating versus courting. Courting should be already changed to dating and getting to know each other. A lot of people are still in the belief that courting is still a part of getting to know each other. How would you know that person if you're not going to date. As long as you're at legal age, then there should be no problem to date whoever you want.
- Laws and enforcements. Some laws that were created before are not applicable at the present time. So we need our legislators to amend these laws and enforce it old school way.
- Praying versus wishing. Praying is to praise and be grateful to GOD. Wishing and asking for something is not praying or should not combined with prayers. Wishing or asking something should be worked hard for and just don't wait for your wish, goals and dreams to come true.
And several others. I would update this list whenever I come up with something.
What I'm saying is we need to make adjustments to cope up with the changing times. There were places that was plain and empty lands before. But now, its already developed with malls, condominiums and other structures and buildings. Heads of different nation change. Even the money change.
Change what will help you in the future and don't be stuck with the beliefs that is not letting you grow.
Kapish!