Ditch That Ideal Person Idea

By Angel Apurillo


"Idealism is fine; but as it approaches reality, the cost becomes prohibitive."
- William Buckley
Everyone, including me, are dreaming that we can have a lifetime partner that will be perfect for us. Those people that will fulfill our fantasies and our wants as a human being. Right?

But all of us know that there is no such human being. And to be realistic, there is 100% no one. Right?

Then why do we still ask and look for someone that don't fulfill the benchmark, When someone doesn't fulfill your needs, you complain and tell that he/she is a dick/bitch?! I know, I already went through that many times.

To help you, make sure you want to read this article. Make sure you will change your idea that...

THERE IS NO IDEAL PERSON... MAN OR WOMAN OR ANYTHING IN BETWEEN...

There is no such human being. Be realistic. That there is no human being, man or woman, that will fulfill your fantasies and dreams.

So don't tell me that you can't live without this person or you want this person to be with you for the rest of your life and etcetera. I tell you that you are just lying to yourself.

We know that you want more than that. We are human beings. We are Men. We are not contented and satisfied.

So, as a man that will talk to you, take your time and make sure that your standardization is what you want. Its difficult to understand it when you're there. Believe me, when you tie the knot, its a different life.

Kapish!